Thursday 14 November 2013

THE DECADENCE OF OUR NATION


THE PAST: “I know a lot about my country, I know a lot because I care. Nigeria, my beloved country, working together is the key”. Who remembers the days when we used to sing this song and mean it, maybe we really did not know what it meant but we sang it anyways. Who remembers observing or hearing about the ODD number and EVEN number system? This was supposedly implemented to reduce traffic on the road. When this country actually had paper boys that used to deliver news papers door to door. I remember my siblings and I taxing all our relations during Christmas just to save up about N 300 in our socks, we considered ourselves rich if we made up to N 500. This would buy us so much candy and other things we thought important. I remember the Leventis, Wallis ice cream, banana ice cream, dominoes, planta and so many other things.  We used to play in the sand, play “ten ten”, go down the streets on our own and play in our neighbors’ houses without fear of anything but getting hurt. The standard of living was good.


THE PRESENT:  You let a child out of your sight for one second and he/she could get kidnapped for either ransom or rituals. All they can do is play with video games. People are holed up in their houses living in bondage and prisons without realizing it. There is hardly ever light, N 500 doesn't buy you anything, there are so many fake products out there, people die every day plying our awful roads, buildings collapse because contractors use sub-standard products, we celebrate our annual ASUU strike. The country suffers from poor standards of everything. There is no maintenance culture, you drink something today and it’s divine, the next time you try it, it’s saccharine and water. Corruption looms and booms at every corner. Things are getting harder every day. I complain about N 500 not being enough, even though I know it is true, some people don’t even have up to half of that in a week. We complain about our government, about corruption about them rubbing us of our future but the truth is are we any better? We, the purported leaders of tomorrow. Who is going to lead us? The young boy that thinks it is okay to go to the club and blow N 500, 000 in 1 night on popping champagne because he feels it will uplift his social status? The single guy that shamelessly says “I want to marry a girl whose father is rich so I can get connections”, the girl who would not give any guy a chance just because “he does not drive a range rover, I cannot suffer” forgetting that that guy may one day be great. He may have potentials that she can’t see because she’s blinded. A girl would put on the internet a picture of herself lying beside a celebrity who she just finished having relations with just to gain popularity? Everything we do and stand for these days is materialistic. Are these the future president and first lady? I am not judging because honestly, we all do what we have to do in this country to survive. There is so much enmity amongst tribes and within tribes. The Yoruba man can’t stand the ibo man, the Anambara man would not let his child marry from Imo state. You dare call a Benue man a northerner and you will get the tongue lashing of your life. How then can this country move forward, how do we claim that we are one, how can we grow? “Working together is the key” seems so far-fetched now because everyone is from OYO state. They say Nigerians are the happiest people on earth but trust me; it is a curse and not a gift. We take everything as a huge joke, we are never serious about anything that would better the nation. That is why a boss at an office would come on international television and say “My oga at the top” and doesn't know that world wide web has 3 w’s and the best thing we can do is to laugh about it, make a t-shirt, make mugs and I even heard a video game was made. Some people do not even believe in God anymore. Truth is, we don’t care whatever happens to our beloved country. Other nations would revolt if certain things we ignore in this country were to happen in theirs. Look at Egypt, look at Liberia, and look at Ghana. They would fight for what is right. The deputy communications minister of Ghana was recently fired just for saying that she will stay in politics till she makes $1 million. She hasn't even made it yet. It was word of mouth, not something she had done. Look at Nigeria, billions of naira from the police pension fund was taken and the culprits were released on mere bail. Does that not scream evil!!! We would never progress until we get a UNIFIED VOICE. We sit and laugh while our brothers and sisters are being slaughtered like sacrificial lambs in the North. Doing nothing because we “no fit shout” has become our slogan.


THE FUTURE: I honestly do not have the answers but I know this, we need more than a Jerry Rawlings of Nigeria as our population is more than Ghana.  People who would take the bull by the horns and do what no Nigerian ever dared to do. Unfortunately my beloved friends most of the youth (maybe even you and I) have to die to purge this nation of all evil because from what I see today, we are no better than our Ogas at the top.

Please it is not enough for us to criticise our leaders. If you have any suggestions as to how to improve the nation in our own little way as citizens, kindle share.


Have a good day guys.

18 comments:

  1. Soty,best piece ever!!u said my mind..gosh

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  2. This is some nice piece sweet, and am excited because our generation has woken up from this slumber. its time to say NO to corruption and give back to dis great nation.. Lets speak up n speak out cos d truth still remains that "This great Country Nigeria" is ours to cultivate n nurture.. Naija 4 life oo

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    1. Sweety have we really woken up? Or are we worse than our predecessors.look around you. We are a crippling,crumbling generation

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  3. We cannot even hallucinate and claim there are changes in any system in this nation when reality stares us hard in the face daily. We see supposed activists who when given an opportunity to serve with govt they critcize daily suddenly become chameleons. There is no one you can depend on to make life easier but yourself and for those who believe, God. Having endless hope can be pretty exhausting. Truth is, we can't be faulted for giving up, who wouldn't? It started with just the elected not caring about the people but now even the people don't care anymore. We are tired! I agree we don't need a Jerry Rawlings. Nigeria most likely needs that kind of cleansing that Jehovah carried out in Sodom and Gomorrah!

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    1. I understand giving up but the truth is that we are being cowardly and selfish by doing so because if its this bad in our time God only knows if there would be a nation come 2015 let alone future years.where would our children lie?. What you said about supposed activists stabbing us in the back is true. We have absolutely no one to rely on because they have all failed us.

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  5. Priceless write up Soty.

    @ Bumbzybee, lol @ cleansing of Sodom and Gomorrah!!!.
    Personally i believe, that there are a few "righteous men" that a certain "Abraham" is using as a negotiating factor with God almighty. But for these few men who could possibly be as few as 10 (same number Abraham used to bargain with God in the Bible), maybe we all would be no more. Scary and sad but true.
    Change they say starts with us, the question we should ask ourselves is...."Am i as an individual willing and ABLE to make that change?

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    1. Exactly.we shiuld be the change we want to see and by that we have to change our orientation. We have to get serious.we have to change a lot about our selves. Lol about Abrahams prayers

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  6. We need a revolutionn....gbam

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  7. I can totally relate, the youths of the country really have nothing to look forward to, look at the ASUU strike for instance, the government claims that they do not have the means to meet ASUU's demands, but who watched the proceedings of the funeral of our first lady's mum, there was some sort of after party, and PSquare and Dbanj even peformed, now tell me, how much money was spent to arrange such an event. Money that could have been used to settle more pressing issues.
    We live in a country where unemployment is so high that it gives employers the right to treat employees the way they like, cos there are no labour laws in place.
    A coountry where some perverted fanatic tries to make it ok to marry 13year olds in the name of religion, ironically this nation is so religious, yet evil still prevails. I had to have my baby at a private hospital for a whopping sum of money because our so called teaching and general hospitals. Are a collosal mess. My dear, its sad.
    On a lighter note, I really miss Nasco wafers, Fanta ginger Ale and Malta sweet :)

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    1. You have just preached the gospel. I heard about how much was spend on that burial that my ears actually hurt. I am not sure there is anything like " the office of the first lady" in the white house but just because we want to loot money, we have that. Do you know I once saw an agency or whatever called "friends of the presidency" in this country. It is heart breaking. @ the unemployment rate, it is beyond gut wrenching. Where employers would tell you things like " you are not lucky you are getting paid, go and ask workers of xyz what happened to them" while slave driving you, calling you to work at odd hours of the weekend without a bonus or even a thank you. About the teaching and government hospitals, I think that is just the saddest because it is not like the doctors are not competent. Everyone knows that the teaching hospitals have the best consultants and physicians in the nation but the truth is that there is no ginger because they are being paid less than peanuts. Also, the corruption is so high, even to our hospitals that private hospitals would hold on to a patients whose life is hanging by a thread and when they have milked the family dry and can no longer treat the situation, they send them off to the teaching hospitals. By then, there is little or nothing the doctors in the teaching hospitals can do. When the patients die, everyone would say, he/she was killed in the teaching hospital whereas that patient died a long time ago in the hands of the private hospital. We are too wicked and selfish in this country. We only look out for our insatiable desires and that is why like you rightfully said, somebody would try to rub a girl of her childhood.
      And yes, i miss nasco wafers so bad. I saw some wafers in the market a couple of days back that looked exactly like nasco wafers banana flavor, was tempted to buy it but this weight watch thing didn't let me. I also miss Fanta chapman.hehehe

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  8. Simply Amazing! God Bless you! I'm definetly going to ff ur blog when my internet is up!

    Obinna
    www.thefenixdiaries.blogspot.com
    (Pls show some love) Thanks!

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    1. Hello Obinna,thank you. Umm if you read my very first post you would know I suck at anything social media so kindly tell me how to follow your blog back ok.

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  9. Excellent piece dear..
    My dear sumtimes I sit n reminisce bout d past, and I ask myself,how on earth did we migrate from grace to grass..?..Ts really an unfortunate situation cos right about now we d people of Nigeria don't even know wat d future holds. Most people up until nw luk for means to jus leave d shores of Nigeria either by hook or crook to find greener pastures overseas cos of our dwindling economy ofcrse our selfish incompetent leaders....I believe all we gotta du is to keep remaining in faith n trust God..for d good book says "those who work unrighteousness,that which is not in right standing with God will b cut down like grass...".let's all b hopeful n du d RIGHT thing!

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  10. Exactly. The decline from grace to grass is bewildering. Lets us not deceive ourselves that it would get better because it would only get worse. We are plummeting into the ground at a fast rate. We do not have a reputation. All over the world we are considered the worst nation. But like I have said, its not enough to complain about our leaders, we too have to change our orientation. We have to start with something as little as showing love and kindness to our brothers and sisters regardless of tribe because the division is the genesis of the problem.

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  11. sometimes I sit and wonder how our beloved country got this bad......everything is falling apart ,we r sinking with a scary speed,every1 fighting 4dia survival........I wonder hw we can re trace our steps and build bck this country that God highly blessed.......my hrt shatter whenever I remember issues concerning Nigeria.....nothing is working right,the leaders ,the people.......sometimes I pray 4 war .....this generation needs to wiped cos good has lost itz hold on bad ......evil has prevailed....wat is our hope?apart from the corrupt leaders,the people of this nation hv gone so wild beyond pep talk........we need serious redemption.........nice post dearie

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